Are You Married To A Sex Addict?

Are you aware that there is such a thing as sexual addiction? Do you think that your wife is a nymphomaniac? Is her addiction to sex making your marriage challenging? If you answered the affirmative, then be sure to read the rest of this article. The primary focus of this write-up is to discuss a woman’s sexual addiction and how it can affect any marriage.




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Therapy For Addiction



The issue of addiction is dangerous, and it needs immediate attention from different people all over the world. This mental condition affects several aspects of the lives of those who have it. At the same time, it can also lead to the creation of problems concerning finances, personal relationships, and even careers. Because of this, it is essential for you to know the significance of therapy when it comes to treating any addiction.


Below is a list of the forms of therapy that are essential for treating addiction:


  1. Behavioral Therapy. This kind of treatment is directly focused on setting up goals that have a link or connection with the present life of the client involved. In this setup, the professional therapist will have a closer look at the undesirable behavior of the client. After that, he will use his observations or records to determine what causes such unhealthy behavior.


  1. Person-Centered Therapy. In this kind of treatment, the therapist believes that every person has goodness within himself. However, addiction is creating a cloud about the client’s good intentions. Because of this, the primary goal of the counselor is to see to it that the innate goodness of the person is shown to the world. He will inspire the client to let the good intentions and deeds emerge.




  1. Motivational Interviewing. This is a type of person-centered therapy wherein certain specializations are added to prevent or cure addiction in people. The therapist’s objective here is to allow the client to discover his desire to make better and smarter decisions in his life. This is resorted to so that the client will not feel that he is forced into changing his mindset.


  1. Eye Movement Desensitization And Reprocessing. Another common term for this is EMDR, which was created to deal with the trauma experienced by persons with addiction specifically. Under this mode of therapy, the professional will help the client recall relevant information about the trauma so that the latter could start to think about it and to master some calming or relaxation skills.


  1. Family Therapy. From the name itself, it can be implied that this kind of therapy involves members of the same household. The therapist will talk to each member of the family so that he can elicit essential data or information that could help the addicted individual. This form of therapy is grounded on the fact that every person belongs to a broader family, which could have contributed to his addiction or other mental condition.

Additionally, online therapy through BetterHelp can provide you with more information on how to tackle addiction and keep your mental health at bay. By clicking the app, you can reach out to one of their credible and experienced counselors who will discuss with you ways in which you can make your life better. Getting connected with them is easy and convenient.

Remember that the kinds of therapy listed above are not exclusive. There are still other kinds of treatment that are not included in the list. What you need to do is to find out which among these modes will be perfect to address a particular case of addiction. Take note that each kind has different effects on the patient or client. Be sure to select the right form of therapy to use. If you are unsure of what to choose, the best thing to do is to talk to a professional therapist about it. Wait for his recommendation or order to ensure that you will not commit any mistakes.


Find A Psychiatrist: Dealing With Substance Abuse


The primary goal of the California Certification Board is to promote mental health. The organization also aims to prevent substance abuse, especially to the younger generation. The proliferation of drugs and other prohibited substances is a pressing issue that the community must immediately address to. There have been reported cases of crimes wherein the perpetrators were high on drugs as well as instances of overdose leading to the death of some users.




Here at California Certification Board, we want people to feel comfortable in seeking professional help when it comes to dealing with addiction. First of all, it is essential to highlight the fact that substance addiction is completely dangerous. It can affect the cognitive function of the persons involved. At the same time, the continued use of prohibited drugs can also lead to chronic illness. Because of this, we encourage everyone to find an addiction psychiatrist.


What Is Addiction Psychiatry?

There are several subspecialties in psychiatry, one of which is addiction psychiatry. This focuses on the symptoms, causes, diagnoses, and treatment of people who are suffering from mental conditions related to addiction. It must be noted that it does cover not only substance abuse but also an addiction to sex, alcohol and even food. The medical doctors who specialize in this field are considered as experts when it comes to substance abuse and other impulse control disorders.


How Is Addiction Diagnosed?




Addiction is a severe mental health illness that must be diagnosed in its early stage so that prevention or recovery can be immediately taken. A health professional must diagnose this kind of condition. As much as possible, people must refrain from making self-diagnosis as it can only put their health in jeopardy. The right thing to do is to refer a particular case to an addiction psychiatrist. The patient will be asked to undergo several tests and examinations to determine the extent of his addiction. After that, the psychiatrist will give out the findings with a complete statement about the material details related to addiction.


Can Addiction Be Treated?




Nowadays, there have been several developments in the field of addiction psychiatry that allows the medical doctors to handle addiction as a mental condition. The treatment plans that will be recommended by psychiatrists will differ from one person to another. Each patient is examined thoroughly so that the doctor can create a specific treatment plan for him. There is a necessity to isolate each case from the other since the degree of addiction and other circumstances vary. Aside from this, the psychiatrists can prescribe certain medications for the patients who have an addiction to narcotics, drugs, sex, alcohol, and food.


If you know someone who has a problem regarding addiction, do not hesitate to bring him to an addiction psychiatrist. Keep in mind that immediate action is required to prevent the situation from getting worse. When it comes to dealing with a psychiatrist, be sure to find the professional who is distinguished in the field of addiction psychiatry. Be careful in selecting the doctor who will handle the case.


Adverse Effects of Getting Hooked on Painkillers

Like what the ad said, “Once you pop, you can’t stop.” But if you do stop, there lie the multitudes of problems you’ll experience all at the same time.


The Growing Problem


The number of painkiller addicts is on the rise in America and what’s more disturbing is it is one of the leading contributing factors to the increase in the deaths caused by drug overdose.

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Do I Need A Sober Companion?



It was a very relaxed day for me yesterday as I lounged around in my pajamas and did nothing except watch TV. You know those days when there is nothing to do (or maybe you’ve come up with the decision that you don’t want to do anything) but just be lazy and have a DVD marathon. I turned on my laptop and typed my favorite website which is Netflix and chose one series to fill my Saturday. This time I opted for Elementary.


Elementary is a series about Sherlock Holmes in a modern twist, and instead of a man sidekick, his detective partner was a Joan Watson (played by Lucy Liu). From there I learned that Joan Watson was a “sober companion” since Sherlock Holmes was a recovering drug addict. Just as I thought that I would get all lazy and watch a series, I began typing out this article. Thanks, Elementary (and Lucy Liu) for inspiring me!


What Is A Sober Companion?




From the series, I learned that a sober companion is someone who stays at your home after you’ve received drug rehab treatment. This person will help you in any way he or she can so that you won’t have a relapse and be drug-free. They can’t be apart or without an update for more than 2 hours, and Joan was sticking with Sherlock like glue. That was how “Joan Watson” was assisting Sherlock Holmes, and their contract was for six weeks.


Based on research, I learned that a sober companion is a person who can accompany you and help you adjust to life outside the rehab center. They say that rehab is synonymous with prison and that your freedom is limited. Upon release, some people relapse and go back to drugs because of too much independence. The sober companion is there to pull the person back from going down the drug use road again.


Expectations From A Sober Companion


In Elementary, Sherlock’s father was the one who hired Joan Watson to be his son’s sober companion. Joan Watson was a surgeon and a great one at that, according to the facts in the series, but she made a mistake on her operating table once that cost the life of a patient. Ever since then, Joan just couldn’t bear it. She decided to become a sober companion and move on from her terrible ordeal.


Anyway, I saw many qualities in Joan Watson on how a sober companion must act. From the series, a sober companion has to be:


  • Effective in removing drugs or alcohol from your home
  • Keen and observant, especially on one’s behavior which can trigger chemical dependency
  • Inspiring in a way that he or she can push the person to perform healthy habits as learned during rehab days
  • Efficient in sifting through your associations – family, friends, lovers, colleagues and such, to avoid relapse
  • Helpful in connecting the client with his or her clean family and friends


A sober companion is not a sponsor. He or she is more than a sponsor, a coach, or a counselor. This person is ready to intervene, and at times, there will be challenging encounters.


Why Recovering Addicts Need A Sober Companion




From the series, Sherlock Holmes didn’t “order” a sober companion. His meddling father did the hiring and paid the services of Joan Watson. As for deciding if a person needs a sober companion or not, in real life, the choice is on the recovering addict. A sober companion is not required after drug rehab treatment is done, but your therapist or counselor may recommend someone if they believe that you need additional help.


Sherlock kept on saying that Joan’s service fee was exorbitant, and it’s true. These days, a live-in sober companion may charge as high as $1000 per day, but then again, this person is your lifeline, your white angel, and good conscience. He or she will prevent your relapse and do everything in their power to keep your nose clean.


If you can afford it, then, why not? Getting clean is not an easy task. If it were easy, there would be no drug addicts in this world, right? But with a sober companion beside you, the days will get smoother and be being sober will be more fulfilling.


(I am nearing the end of Season 1 in Elementary, and as expected, Sherlock offered a business partnership to Joan Watson. Apparently, he needed her, as much as she needed him. And Sherlock reached 365 days of sobriety. Cool!)


Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder


What is Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder?

Prenatal drug exposure can lead to Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder. It is a disorder with three classifications – Fetal Alcohol Syndrome or FAS, Fetal Alcohol Effects, and Alcohol-Related Neurodevelopmental Disorder. The most severe complication in the spectrum is FAS.




Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder or FASD manifests when a pregnant mother continues to consume a substantial amount of alcohol on a constant basis. It can also develop when a woman who’s pregnant continues to do drugs like cocaine, heroin, or even legal drugs like pain medicines. It is prevalent these days, and studies show that there are at least four babies born in the United States from drug-addicted mothers. 30-40% of those babies delivered, if they do not perish in the womb, the children grow up with behavioral or neurodevelopmental disorders. It is on top of the FASD effect list.

What are these behavioral or neurodevelopmental disorders? You can expect addicted babies to show signs of mental retardation, physical defects, facial deformities, mental health disorders like depression, anxiety, extreme stress, schizophrenia, and many others. The list goes on and on really. There is no one positive effect of alcohol or drugs in a pregnant woman.


More On Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

It is termed as the most severe illness classification because it bears the gravest effects on babies and growing kids if their mothers were addicts while pregnant with them. The condition is permanent, long-lasting, and you guessed it right, forever. It cannot be stressed enough. There is no turning back for a child with FAS, and the mother can only feel guilty when she sees her child suffer; that is if she is lucky enough to hold and take care of her child, being an addict and all.

If a child has Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, it is highly likely that he or she will be exhibiting learning deficiencies, memory problems, severe focus issues, communication troubles, vision impairment, and hearing complications. When they get to schooling age, the children won’t be able to function well. They might as well have low IQ’s and will need special education. It is also possible that the children will fail subjects and lessons. This feature can also add to their mental health issues – feelings of worthlessness, or no success.




Characteristics Of Kids With Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

What is the worst that can happen to a baby inside the womb of an alcohol-addicted mother? The babies can die in-utero. They will have weird-looking facial structures, physical growth deficiencies, and illnesses related to their weak central nervous system. What else is there on the FAS characteristics list?


  • Thin, short, small-framed and physically weak babies and kids
  • Facial defects like small eyes or deformed mouths
  • Deficient hand-eye coordination
  • Hyperactivity
  • Learning disorders
  • Speech and communication delays
  • Low IQ
  • Daily life difficulties
  • Poor choices
  • Impaired decisions
  • Lack of logical judgment
  • Sleep disorders in children
  • Sucking problems


There are also psychiatric or psychological problems in kids with FAS. They may not be born with it, but the characteristics mentioned above are due to the fact that the children have the syndrome. They have acquired it unwillingly.




Prevention Of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

FAS is fully preventable. It is simple to avoid. If the mother stops drinking alcohol while pregnant, then, there will be no FAS to deal with when the child grows up.

Now, for those who are chemically dependent, stopping their addiction is a big issue. With this, the assistance of chemical dependency counselors and professionals is imperative. They will provide programs that can help pregnant mothers quit their alcohol addiction. When the habit curbs, the child, and mother are safe.




Alcohol Or Drug Addiction And Unborn Babies




Until now, the research on babies inside the womb with mothers who are either alcohol dependent or drug-addicted is ongoing and has some grave news. In the UK, four babies are born each day with addiction, either alcohol or drugs. As for news in the United States, four babies are born each HOUR on the hour with opioid dependence.

Alarming, huh? Even babies who don’t know how to feed themselves can now be drug-addicted. It is truly insane.


What Is Opioid Addiction?

It is a type of addiction to pain relievers – be it legal or illegal substances or drugs. Opioid Addiction is a huge problem in the United States since it affects not only mothers but also their newborn babies.


Studies On Side Effects Of Alcohol Or Drug Addiction In Babies

The headline is genuinely eyebrow-raising. How can babies become addicts? If it were done traditionally, you’d imagine that “babies” would inject the cocaine or snort the heroin. It’s crazy! But yes, babies can become addicts, and that’s the fault of their drug-addicted or alcohol-addicted mother.

One study showed that babies who were born from drug addict mothers are more likely to suffer from behavioral issues when they become toddlers. Symptoms like inattentiveness, focus issues, not able to speak openly or convey his thoughts verbally (not deaf or mute), and lacking behavioral control are just some of the problems observed when the babies get older. At least thirty to forty percent of the babies grow up that way. They have fine motor skills and developmental delays.

The pressing concern here is the long-term health effects on the babies born by drug-addicted mothers. Even if the children “recover” from Opioid Addiction, they are not really “cured” since there is no antidote for addiction. There are treatment and management programs for that, though. The sad part here is for the babies. They didn’t choose this, and they didn’t like this kind of health impediment. They are the ones suffering.




Long-Term Effects Of Alcohol Addiction On Babies

Here is another study. The observation was that as high as 30% of pregnant mothers engage in alcohol drinking, but there are some who resort to severe consumption. With this, the babies are born with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder. The disorder has three classifications: Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS), Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), and Alcohol-Related Neurodevelopmental Disorder (ARND).

Babies born with this disorder are physically deformed which may include facial disfigurements, small head measurement, delayed cognitive function, and more. When they become adults, they will have problems with learning and their memory. They will also exhibit a lack of absorption. And that’s just alcohol. The effects on babies by drugs are more disturbing than alcohol.


Long-Term Effects Of Drug Addiction On Babies

Cocaine can cause mental health disorders to develop in babies within the wombs of their addicted mothers. The drug has an impact on the dopamine and serotonin pathways of the mother which will then mess up the neurological development of babies. So, the least mental health disorder that a baby can acquire from this is seizures and depression. The worst that they can develop from this are schizophrenia, Parkinson’s disease, and the likes. Who would want their child to manifest schizophrenia?

The list doesn’t stop there. Of course, behavioral issues are a given. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Conduct Disorder, and Oppositional Defiant Disorder are just some of the minor behavioral problems of a baby born with cocaine addiction.

As for heroin, the children are often enrolled in special education because they are “slow.” Studies showed that 65% of kids with heroin-addicted mothers repeat a grade level. Their IQ’s are impaired.

Addiction to legal substances like pain meds can also deliver the same long-term effects.




Are The Children Doomed?

Early intervention can help children who were born with alcohol or drug addiction. If their disorders are spotted early on, appropriate treatment is readily available. They can still have a life. For those who have a permanent disability because of the addiction, it’s just so sad. It would be better for everyone just to stay away from alcohol or drugs, pregnant or not.

If you or a loved one is pregnant and has problems with alcohol or drugs, it would be best to consult with a chemical dependency counselor.

Importance Of Support System To People Battling With Addiction

Recovering from substance abuse is a daunting task for people battling addiction. Addiction recovery does not end with leaving rehabilitation centers. More importantly, recovery must continue outside of recovery centers. Thus, people must have a support system which can help them to achieve complete recovery.


A recovering person’s support system is not necessarily composed of immediate family members. Essential aspects of the support system are their availability and positive influence. Thus, friends or other people can be your support system as long as they are always available and have a positive impact on you. Another crucial and deciding aspect is the trust that you will give to them.

Decreased Relapse Episodes

Having a reliable support system will more likely reduce relapse episodes since the support system provides influence to avoid addictive cravings. Every time you feel the urge to satisfy self-destructive wants, a message or call to members of your support system will be of great help. Thus, their availability is one of the deciding factors when choosing a support system.

Moreover, the support system will also help you to think of healthy coping mechanisms to replace the addictive cravings that you once had. Support systems can extend their support through active participation in your healthy hobbies. In this way, they can divert your attention to performing self-beneficial tasks, such as meditation and exercise

Constant Communication


Another useful aspect of a support system is the continuous positive communication that it provides. Through having a support system, you can communicate your thoughts to people who are concerned for your health and well-being. You must exhibit honesty and trust when you interact with them. In this way, they will have a realistic assessment of where you are in your recovery.

Constant and positive communication can also veer you away from depressive thoughts due to your recovery. Life’s instances will not always be in your favor, and this may sometimes push you to make rash decisions. When you feel your thoughts succumbing to previous addictive cravings, communication with your support system will remind you that there are better days ahead.

Positive Peer Pressure


Your support system consists of people who push you to become better. You may sometimes feel a lot of pressure, but it is the right kind of persuasion. This kind of influence will soon be incorporated into your routine, making you accustomed to thinking of ways to decide better for yourself.

Besides, since you are aware that your support system has life goals for themselves, you will be pressured into thinking the same for yourself. A genuine support system does not demand a speedy recovery; instead, it acknowledges that you have shortcomings. That is one of the reasons why you can be better.

Decreased relapse episodes, having someone to talk to, and experiencing positive peer pressure are just some of the positive impacts that a support group can give you. Many people are willing to help you through your journey. May this article convince you to share your progress with others.

Essential Self-Help Tips For Addiction Recovery


Transitioning from being a self-addict into a recovered one is a challenging journey. There might be hurdles along the way which might tempt you to go back to your old self. You might undergo withdrawal since the brain is trying to adjust on having a low- to non-dependability on a substance. However, with these self-help tips, it will be easier for you to manage your road to recovery.

Spend Time With Supportive Individuals

Establishing a good connection with other people is a vital part of self-care. It is essential to have a reliable support system whom you can reach out to in case the journey overwhelms you and brings you sadness. Many recovering addicts also rely on these people so that they won’t be tempted to go back to their old addiction scene.

Finding new life connections might be a little daunting for recovering addicts, but the Internet makes the process a whole lot easier. You may start by looking for support networks who understand and relate to your situation. You may also opt to search for a group with the same interests as you, be it yoga, exercise, or even reading groups.

Detoxify With Food


Research says that your diet affects how your brain works, stabilizes your mood, and responds to stress. It is crucial to replenish the vitamins and minerals inside your body since the levels had most likely decreased because of substance abuse. To address these deficiencies, make sure to eat every few hours and aim for a nutrient-dense diet.

Distract Yourself With A Hobby

It can be tough to fight the urges for recovering addicts. Most of the people who are new in this situation start by chewing gum all the time or saying personal mantras to regain control of themselves. However, you might need a more significant distraction if you want to win this fight. Find an activity that you are interested in or that means something to you.

There are many options out there. These include sports, music, side hustles, or art. You may even seek volunteer organizations and work in children’s hospitals or animal shelters.

Keep A Journal


Remember, your number one enemy which will bother you throughout this journey is yourself. The best way to calm your mind is to keep a daily journal. Inserting this practice on your everyday routine will encourage you to let out your emotions instead of keeping all of these anxious energies swirling in your head for days.

Let Some Connections Go

As you make new friends, find the courage to let some of your connections go. Because you’re entering a new phase of your life, you need to cut lose people who will influence you to regress to your cycle of addiction. Make sure to spend time with individuals who will make you feel happy and healthy.

Do not hesitate to practice all of these self-care tips. If you do it right, you’ll see how much you are worth and that you deserve all the love in the world.